I think your feeling is very valid and common amongst trans women… I often feel the same way.
Yup. I totally see other trans women and I’m like “am I faking that? That real thing she’s doing, am I faking it?
That is a super common feeling. Also ew at anon.
You haven’t had a history of being transphobic. I can tell because I don’t allow that shit on my dash, but I’m still following you. :)
Well I apologise if I caused offense, but I think you wrongly assumed I was equating “cis” and “real” there, which kinda puts the ew on you.
My point wasn’t that’s trans girls aren’t real girls - of course they are - but that most of the time I feel like I’m neither; instead just making a mockery of being a girl, trans or cis, instead of actually being one.
If you’ve followed my blog for a while you’d know I’ve always had issues with identity and self esteem, and I’d hope never a history of being transphobic.
*hug* I’ve not much to say but to have hope dear. It might not be much but I hope you can find solace one day.